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How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 11:37

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Always speak the truth.

Aching

Licking Your Lips

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Pinching Pennies

If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.

When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.

What is your secret to glowing skin?

Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?

Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .

Fiddling With Keys

At least 45 Palestinians killed while waiting for aid trucks in Gaza, health officials say - AP News

According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.

Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.

Hoarding

What would happen if Kakashi and Naruto switched places?

When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.

Always say thank you and write a thank you note.

Devalued

Where can I get sure fixed matches on Instagram?

While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.

Pained

If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.

What are some downsides to living in Newfoundland and Labrador (besides the weather)?

Picking Your Teeth In Public

Interpreting my conversation.

Poor Hygiene

Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?

Buzz-friggin’-feed

Eating Meat

Playing Kingdom Rush

What do you think hell is like?

Learn how to grill well.

In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.

Biting Your Pen

The Labour Party wants to put the Winter fuel allowance and the ÂŁ800,000 of gifts received by ministers behind us. Is this a real option for the people who will suffer as our new masters unapologeticly feast on freebies?

Crushed

Shoplifting

Snubbed

What is the most gay experience with your dad?

Watching Seinfeld Reruns

They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.

When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .

Eating Gluten

Use and abuse me.

Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.

Grinding Your Teeth

Not Flossing

Watching Reality Television

Eating Fast Food

Spending Too Much Time Online

Chastised

Littering (really, stop littering)

Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.

Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.

Using Slang

Diminished

Scratching An Itch

P.S: Pavlok will never judge you. Some habits are objectively bad, e.g., smoking kills you. Other habits like “sleeping in” depend on context, like if it’s making you late for work. And still other habits aren’t really either good or bad, it’s just personal preference. Also, if you have a condition that puts you or anyone at risk of serious harm you must see a medical professional immediately and you can ask your doctor if Pavlok is right for you.

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.

Put down

When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.

Telling Secrets

When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.

Staying Up Late

Eating Cookies Every Damn Day

Speeding

Spread positivity

Exaggerating

Binge Watching Netflix

Neglected

Bullying People

Eavesdropping

Eat lunch with the new kid.

Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.

Watching T.V Right After Work

Being An Attention Hog

Give credit.

When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.

Eating White Sugar

Impersonating me.

Humiliated

Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .

Loitering

Blocking my way .

Share food.

Talking to me loudly.

Breaking Promises To Yourself

Gossiping

Slouching While Walking

Picking Scabs

Be confident and humble at the same time.

Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.

Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them

If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.

Cheek Biting

You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well


Slouching At The Computer

Biting Your Lips

Skin Picking

Spending On Credit Cards

Overspending

Spying on my private conversations.

They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.

Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.

And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.

When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.

Drinking From The Carton

Agonized

Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .

Skipping Work

Eating Past 8 P.M

According to Google:

Borrowing And Not Returning Items

Leaving The Toilet Seat Up

Talking To Yourself

When someone spy on me for no good reason.

Do not wink a lot while conversing.

If someone cuts off my basic needs .

When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.

Abused

Drinking Soda/Pop

Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.

Picking Your Nose

Use thankyou as often as you can.

Sitting Too Close To The T.V

After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.

Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .

Reddit

Emotional Eating

Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.

Day Dreaming

Don't get jealous of anyone.

It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.

Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.

Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.

Licking Your Fingers

Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.

The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.

Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun

Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.

Falling Asleep In Class

Afflicted

Not being sexist or racist.

Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.

Gaming In Class

You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.

Intimidated

Leaving The Fridge Open

Going To The Club

When someone bother me for no good reason.

The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .

Cheated

Thumb Sucking

Online Surfing In Class

In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

Assaulted

Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .

Cracking Your Knuckles

Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone

In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.

Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.

Always protect your siblings (and teammates).

Yelling At Your BF/GF

Betrayed

When a man sexually touch.

One-Upping

Losing Your Temper

Facebook

Injured

Heart-broken

Kissing & Telling

Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.

While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.

Twitter

Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing

Do not try to listen to two persons talk.

Masturbating

Ignored

Taking responsibility for actions.

Not texting while you are talking to someone.

Rambling

While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.

Not staring at strangers in public.

Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.

Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)

There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.

Plotted against me .

Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.

Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places

Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

Hacking my Facebook account.

Using Your Phone In Bed

Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.

One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.

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Annihilated

Bragging

Wash your handa before eating.

When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.

Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.

Pencil Chewing

Repeating Yourself

Psychology, law and ethics

Annoying People On Purpose

When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.

Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back

Don't talk back.

Forgotten

Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.

Trolling Comments

Coming to close to my face .

Damaging my good work record.

Chewing Tobacco

Drinking Tea

Insulted

Deflated

Copying

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.

Monopolizing A Conversation

Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .

Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .

You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.

When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.

Popping Zits

Don't touch others while speaking.

Not Moisturizing

Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.

Eating Dairy

Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.

Don't shake hands with wet hands.

If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.

Forgetting Names Of People You Meet

Slighted

You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.

Using Your Maiden Name

Lying

Biting Fingernails

Always chew with your mouth closed.

Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)

Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.

While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.

Open the car door for your passenger.

What are some proper manners for everyday life?

Restrict my freedoms.

Quora

You marry the girl, you marry her family.

When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.

Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad

Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.

Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.

Name Dropping

Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.

Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails

Opening Countless Tabs

Humming To Yourself

Dragging me into fights arguments.

Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.

Kouhan Fatah

Tortured

Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.

Being Overly Critical

You’re never too old to learn something new.

Brutalized

To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.

Speak politely amd softly.

Excessive Salt

Blocking my vision.

Eating When You Are Bored

If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.

Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails

Being a polite driver.

Oppressed

Hair Pulling

A sport coat is worth a thousand words.

If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.

Conning me , ripping me off .

Deprived

Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.

Arranging Instead of Cleaning

D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.

Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.

While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.

Rejected

Video Games

Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.

When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.

To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.

Interrupting Someone

Not Showering

Horking

This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .

Not Doing Your Homework

Fidgeting

Rebuffed

Take advantage of me .

Manners maketh the man.

Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.

Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.

Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.

Snacking

YouTube

Not interrupting people when they are talking.

When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.

Take your hat off when you enter the house.

Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:

Invalidated

Persecuted

Complaining

An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.

If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”

Skipping Meals

Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New

Bleeding

And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.

Overeating

If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

Ridiculed

Being A Know-It-All

When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.

Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

Chewing On Your Hair

Don't hurt your parents.

Squashed

When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.

Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.

When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .

Bushwhacked

Spitting

Not Holding Eye Contact

When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.

Burned

When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.

Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.

Drinking Energy Drinks

Popping Gum

In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.

Laughed at

Make your bed.

Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.

Using Devices At Night

Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.

When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.

Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””


What are some bad habits we all have?

Being Unfriendly

Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.

Do not appreciate my hard work and help.

Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .

Defeated

Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.

Gambling

Always hold the door open for others.

Porn Watching

Not Brushing Your Teeth

Blamed

Ask if you can help.

Emotional Shopping

Try to stand when greeting.

Use polite words.

Losing Focus

Forgetting To Shave

Being Late

m&m’s

If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.

If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .

Eating Chocolate

Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

Screwed

Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?

Jilted

Victimized

Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.

While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.

Talking During Movies

Giving Away “Tells” In Poker

All Work And No Play

Eating Candy

Skipping Class

When someone threat me when I am innocent.

Belching

Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.

Say sorry whenever necessary.

Celling bangs and squeaky floors.

Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.

Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.

When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.

Chewing With Mouth Open

Freeloading

Write down your dreams.

Procrastinating

Being Argumentative

Invasion of privacy and space.

To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.

Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.

Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.

Play with passion or don’t play at all.

Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.

Tormented

Wronged

Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out

Respect your teachers
.who always force us to the next level.

Disrespected

Skipping The Gym

Sleeping-in

Skipping Breakfast

Excessive Throat Clearing

Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”

When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.

Nibbling While Cooking

If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.

Do not move hands while speaking.

Punched

Abased

The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.

Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism

You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.

Chewing Gum

Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.

Whining

Speaking With Your Mouth Full

It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.

Offended

Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.

Finishing People’s Sentences

But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .

Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.

Sleeping With Makeup

Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.

Over Medicating

Fiddling With Your Hair

Respect people regardless of their job.

Dejected

Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.

Hypocrisy of poeple.

Return things within time.

Invisible

Talking In Class

Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.

Picking Fights

Damaged

Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.

Saying “Yes” To Everything

They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.

If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .

Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.

Drinking Coffee

When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.

Flaking Out

Never turn down a breath mint.

Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.

Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.